TRANS COUCHSURFING NETWORK - PLEASE SIGNAL BOOST THE HELL OUT OF THIS
Hi! I just started a tumblr, the Transgender Couchsurfing Network. After seeing dozens of posts come across my dash about displaced or homeless trans people needing places to crash, I decided that there had to be a way to organize these posts somehow, and to put those in need in contact with those willing to lend a hand. If you’re trans and need a place to stay, or if you have a couch or floor or spare bedroom available for someone in need, I urge you to reblog this post, follow the blog, and get the word out. Everything is still under heavy construction, but the more people that see and hear about this blog, the more people will be able to benefit from it! I know that there are so many people here on tumblr who are in need of a place to stay for a night or two, and I also know how many amazing, wonderful people would be willing to host someone and help out a trans person in need. We all know what a huge problem unemployment and homelessness are for trans people (especially TPOC and trans women) — even a place to stay for a night can make the biggest difference! So PLEASE, even if you can’t offer up your couch, REBLOG AND SIGNAL BOOST. I really, really think that this is something that could help a lot of people, and I would LOVE to see this spammed all over my dash and the dashes of all of my lovely followers!!
(Source: transhousingnetwork, via sugarbooty)
12:38 am |
December 15 2012
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“Queerness, to me, is about far more than homosexual attraction. It’s about a willingness to see all other taboos broken down. Sure, many of us start on this path when we first feel “same sex” or “same gender” attraction (though what is sex? And what is gender? And does anyone really have the same sex or gender as anyone else?). But queerness doesn’t stop there.
This is a somewhat controversial stance, but to me queer means something completely different than “gay” or “lesbian” or “bisexual.” A queer person is usually someone who has come to a non-binary view of gender, who recognizes the validity of all trans identities, and who, given this understanding of infinite gender possibilities, finds it hard to define their sexuality any longer in a gender-based way. Queer people understand and support non-monogamy even if they do not engage in it themselves. They can grok being asexual or aromantic. (What does sex have to do with love, or love with sex, necessarily?) A queer can view promiscuous (protected) public bathhouse sex with strangers and complete abstinence as equally healthy.
Queers understand that people have different relationships to their bodies. We get what it means to be stone. We know what body dysphoria is about. We understand that not everyone likes to get touched the same way or to get touched at all. We realize that people with disabilities may have different sexual needs, and that people with survivor histories often have sexual triggers. We can negotiate safe and creative ways to be intimate with people with HIV/AIDs and other STIs.
Queers understand the range of power and sensation and the diversity of sexual dynamics. We are tops and bottoms, doms and subs, sadists and masochists and sadomasochists, versatiles and switches. We know what we like and don’t like in bed.
We embrace a wide range of relationship types. We can be partners, lovers, friends with benefits, platonic sweethearts, chosen family. We can have very different dynamics with different people, often all at once. We don’t expect one person to be able to fulfill all our diverse needs, fantasies and ideals indefinitely.
Because our views on relationships, sex, gender, love, bodies, and family are so unconventional, we are of necessity anti-assimilationist. Because under the kyriarchy we suffer, and watch the people we love suffering, we are political. Because we want to survive, we fight. We only want the freedom to be ourselves, love ourselves, love each other, and live together. Because we are routinely denied that, we are pissed.
Queer doesn’t mean “don’t label me,” it means “I am naming myself.” It means “ask me more questions if you curious” and in the same breath means “fuck off.””
What Queerness Means To Me « Tranarchism (via docasaur)
12:10 am |
December 15 2012
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My vegan caramel sauce came out tasting more like butterscotch but I AIN’T MAD
So not only is Jasika Nicole (aka Astrid from Fringe) a bad-ass queer WOC with a wicked analysis, she’s also (probably) vegan?!
10:07 pm |
December 14 2012
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abbreviated.: in memory of adrienne rich: splittings.
I’ve always loved this poem, but I didn’t understand it until I was older. Adrienne, I hope one day I write something as beautifully as you wrote this.
1. My body opens over San Francisco like the day – light raining down each pore crying the change of light I am not with her I have been...
11:27 pm |
August 21 2012
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“How terribly sad it is that people are made in such a way that they get used to something as extraordinary as living.”
— Jostein Gaarder, The Solitaire Mystery (via nirvikalpa)
(Source: palpability, via weirdbitterdays)
11:29 pm |
July 17 2012
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“Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place.”
— Kurt Vonnegut (via weirdbitterdays)
(Source: onlinecounsellingcollege, via weirdbitterdays)
11:11 pm |
July 17 2012
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Bill Corbett: Repeat Offender: ME (part II)
First and foremost: I’m sorry. I don’t want to bury the lede here.
But let me back up for people who don’t know what I’m talking about..
A few days ago on Twitter, I posted these two things in quick succession:
1) My son got a Transformer for his 5th birthday and named him “Tranny.”
11:10 pm |
July 17 2012
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[IMAGE DESCRIPTION: TWO BABY FENNEC FOXES, ONE LYING CURLED UP IN A BALL WITH OTHER STANDING OVER IT LOOKING DOWN WITH PAW PLACED ON ITS BACK. TEXT OVER PHOTO IS AN EMMA GOLDMAN QUOTE, “BEFORE WE CAN FORGIVE ONE ANOTHER, WE HAVE TO UNDERSTAND ONE ANOTHER.”]
(Source: anti-oppressivebabyanimals, via adornyourhearts)
1:47 am |
July 4 2012
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